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One day, my son showed me a small black stapler. From the outside – completely ordinary, just another object you wouldn’t think twice about.
But when he turned it over and gently opened the bottom part, a small compartment was revealed, holding extra staples – as if it had a secret belly.
I stood there and realized that this stapler had been sitting on my desk for months, and only now I was discovering there was more to it than I thought.
When I asked him how he discovered it, he answered simply:
"I tried. Whenever I try – I discover new things."
I couldn’t get that sentence out of my head.
In that moment, I understood that this isn’t really a story about a stapler.
It’s a story about me, and about all of us – about all those places where we live alongside our lives, but don’t really open, don’t really check, don’t really try.
As I looked at that small stapler, I realized how similar we are to it.
We see ourselves as "ordinary":
just another mother, another parent, another caregiver, another partner.
We have routines, roles, responsibilities – and so many things we believe we already know about ourselves.
But there are whole parts within us that have never been given the chance to come out:
We wait until we have more time, more confidence, less fear – and in the meantime, we stay with the same habits, the same roles, the same thoughts.
The little stapler reminded me:
only when we gently open, and are willing to look inside, do we discover the true “inside” of who we are.
My son didn’t know there was a hidden compartment.
He simply allowed himself to play, to explore, to try.
And from that small moment of play – a big life lesson was born.
✨ The treasure is hidden in the trying. ✨
A reflection question for the coming week:
What is one small thing I’m willing to try this week?
You can write for yourself:
To a life of curiosity,
Hannah Pilnick ❤️
This weekly message is inspired by the story "What’s Hidden Inside the Stapler's Belly?" from my new book "Souvenirs – Short stories with life lessons".
To a life of curiosity
❤️ Hannah
“Souvenirs” – short stories to calm your mind, warm your heart, and see life differently. Coming soon.
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